There is tremendous power in acceptance.
I recently discovered that one of our teenage daughters made a choice to do something that was not in alignment with the rules of the Clark Ohana. So, today, after breakfast, we had a family meeting.
During our value-added, love-based discussion about choices, actions, and consequences, I was shocked and dismayed to learn that my daughters, who have previously and proudly shared stories about their victorious arguments won in previous “Socratic Seminars” at school, had never been taught what the Socratic Method is, or who, how, and why the Socratic Method was (and still is) a successful method for improving the likelihood of arriving at a validated consensus. Heck, they didn’t even know who Socrates was. Of course, I digressed and led a family discussion on who Socrates was; what the Socratic Method is; and why the Socratic Method works. More importantly, I explained why the current political debates, though initially founded on a derivation of the premise of the Socratic Method, fail miserably at providing any real value. For the most part, the positions of the remaining candidates are well-known by most voters well before the debates. Accordingly, with a failed Socratic Method, we are left with personal and dogmatic attacks; validations of the parties’ respective positions; invective, and hyperbolic histrionics that actually do more to undermine an understanding of the issues than to facilitate a greater consideration of what could or might be a different, if not better, set of discussed and deliberated alternatives. Bringing it all back to family, I will add this: When he was alive, my paternal grandfather would seemingly ramble on and on about many things in which I was not entirely informed and, as such… not entirely interested; yet, as a respectful and uneducated young man, I intently listened. And, just when I thought my grandfather’s ramblings could not get any worse, he would say something amazingly powerful that would connect with me, myself, and my life in a way that I would have never discovered if I did not have the initial respect and regard to (at least) TRULY listen and SINCERELY consider the fullness of what he was saying. As a community of people… As a nation of naturally born or naturalized citizens… We have the same capability and capacity. Yet, we seem to lack real-time consideration and compliance. Accordingly, we have become complicit in a conspiracy and war of which we are unwitting and unsuspecting - yet willing - combatants. Again…
We have become complicit in a war of which we are unwitting yet willing combatants.
At the end of the day, right is right, and wrong is wrong.
And to whom much is given, much is expected. Unfortunately, in the final analysis, the two-party system has devolved into a choice between proactive support for a country that prioritizes CORPORATE welfare or SOCIAL welfare. Both of these concepts and resultant philosophies are unique in how they elevate “entities.” Legally and spiritually, you, he, she, me, and they are real entities. Legally speaking, corporations are entities, too. The major difference? For thousands of years, you, he, she, me, and they have been responsible for taking care of each other, especially when one of us cannot take care of ourselves. In this relatively new experiment called the United States of America, corporate entities have one, singular mission: to literally succeed at all costs. To do this, corporate entities must place the corporate interests above the interests of the people that work for and with the entity. The U.S. “conservative” party loves to place corporate interests above the interests of the people that work for and with the entity. Thus, they love corporate welfare. If you don’t believe or understand this, please don’t attack me. Listen, learn, and then lead yourself in a manner similar to what I did when my grandfather rambled on about SEEMINGLY unrelated matters. On the other hand (or on the other side of the aisle), we have at least tried to do one, small-but significant thing – like provide universal health care – that best exemplify the concern of the health of our nation (literally and figuratively). Concern and the commensurately capable programs for the electorate’s health should be a no-brainer; it’s a form of social welfare that the United States is literally the last advanced nation in the Western World to NOT openly and optimistically offer this option. But, because we, as an electorate represented by politicians, lobbyists, and avatars, seem to lack real-time consideration and compliance with the rules of listening, learning, and leading ourselves to an inclusive conclusion, we have allowed politicians, pundits, and prevaricators to purposefully obfuscate social welfare and make it seem tantamount to socialism. It is not. There… I have purposefully made it equally muddled. Because, in the end, I want to ask this one, simple question:
Do you want corporate welfare or social welfare?
Personally, I prefer a balance of the two. We in the various States united under an evolving constitution haven't figured out how to have a balanced system with proper checks and balances.
Accordingly, in the absence of balance, let’s go with social welfare. The corporations can and will "figure it out." And remember, despite what some united citizens would have you believe: concern for our nation's social welfare is definitely NOT socialism. But as long as we allow politicians to lie, evade valid questions, and pretend like their actions, answers, and associations don’t have consequences, we are making our world worse for my teenage daughters and your children, too. As ageless philosophers have reminded us again and again, we must begin with the end in mind. Accordingly, I endeavor to live by the mantra to {Accept. Adapt. Achieve!®} Indeed, I’ve learned the tremendous power of acceptance. At least three times a week, I tell myself, “I am where I need to be, when I need to be there.” Over the course of my lifetime, I have learned that we, as a species, can accept almost anything. Interestingly enough, we don’t have to understand what we are trying to accept; all that acceptance requires is a specific intention of choice. We choose to believe in the concept of a minute, an hour, and race (as in the color of a person's skin). Truly, the human being is such an amazing creature; we can adapt to almost anything. Accordingly, if we can accept almost anything, and we can adapt to almost anything... what does that say about what we can achieve? 
John H. Clark III is an optimistic realist.
Principal consultant at The PIE Group, and Executive Director of TeenBuilding USA, [a non-profit 501c(3)], John believes better development of leaders is what we (all) need. And to be better organizations, we need more good leaders, not followers. To build better leaders, we must start with the individual (you, she, he, and me).
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